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Enneagram Type 4

I like things that are unconventional, dramatic and refined. I'm definitely not a fan of the ordinary.
I never really felt like I belonged.
I have so many feelings in a day it's hard to know which ones to pay attention to first.
Some people think I'm aloof, but I'm really just unique.
In social situations I tend to hang back and wait for others to approach me.
Melancholy is comfortable for me, so it's annoying when people try to cheer me up.
I'm not like everyone else...phew!
I'm very sensitive to criticism, and it takes me a while to get over it.
I spend a lot of time trying to explain myself.
When people tell me what to do I'm often tempted to do just the opposite.
Sometimes I just disappear and go radio silent for a few days.
I'm OK with sad songs, sad stories and sad movies. Overly happy people give me a headache.
I feel there is something essential lacking in me.
It's really hard for me to settle into a relationship because I'm always looking for my ideal soul mate.
I'm self-conscious. It's hard for me to find my place in a room full of people.
People say I am too intense and my feelings overwhelm them.
I'm either an artist or highly creative. I come up with one amazing, creative ide after another. It's executing them that's hard.
Lots of people misunderstand me, and it makes me frustrated.
I pull some people in, but then I get nervous and push them away.
I worry a lot about abandonment.